THE 5 IDEAL

1. We don’t let others know how we do what we do. There is no rehearsal footage of us learning the skills that we show to others, and they only get to see the final result.
2. We cultivate an ‘image’ by hiding the dirty work and projecting only the positive stuff.
3. We don’t react...

The actual words don't matter. What counts is the lightness of tone that comes from an impression of the legitimacy or our position. For example:

• I love this song as well, but at the moment, I need to get some sleep (when someone is playing their music loudly nea...

Our mindset is a set of beliefs that shape how we make sense of the world and yourself. It influences how we think, feel, and behave in any given situation.  

So, we have now probably realized that our mindset is probably pulling down our confidence. But to fix that mindset...