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Social Dramaturgy: How We Develop Masks to Interact

The Ideal Image On The Stage Of Life

  1. We don’t let others know how we do what we do. There is no rehearsal footage of us learning the skills that we show to others, and they only get to see the final result.
  2. We cultivate an ‘image’ by hiding the dirty work and projecting only the positive stuff.
  3. We don’t react to insults or show our negative side in public, preferring to deal with the problem behind the scenes.

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