3. Make criticism a gift, never a weapon. - Deepstash
3. Make criticism a gift, never a weapon.

3. Make criticism a gift, never a weapon.

If I am criticizing to help, I am doing it right; if I am doing it to harm, I am doing it wrong. 

To keep critical feedback in the first category, the research tells us that it should have five elements:

the care of the recipient in mind;

respectful delivery;

good intentions;

a pathway to improvement;

and appropriate targeting of the recipient’s needs. 

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