Past Judgements And Labels And On To Root Causes
The ubiquity of ambivalence in the face of change is a reality of normal human experience. It’s true for us, and it’s true for others; our family members and friends, and those we encounter and serve in our professional lives.
Acknowledging this fact is the first step in dissolving counterproductive judgments and labels so that we can more clearly see and skillfully address the root causes of ambivalence.
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