Think Of Small Talk Like Music
When communicating with someone you don't know, it's important to match their mood and focus on making them feel comfortable. Instead of worrying about the specific words or information being shared, show empathy and actively engage in their story. The most important factor is the positive feeling they have while talking to you, not the details of the conversation.
People may forget what you say, but they will always remember how you made them feel. So focus on creating a comfortable and enjoyable atmosphere during small talk.
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