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Adopt a transformative practice

• Vivienne Westwood suggests that by committing to a practice, you initiate change within yourself, which leads to broader life changes.

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Blame is nothing but an easy way out of taking responsibility for your own outcomes. It’s a lot easier to point a finger at someone or something else instead of looking within yourself. 

Blame is not constructive; it does not help you or anyone else.

How someone else treats you is outside your control.
But noticing who or what you are exposing yourself to is within your control. And so you should focus on that.