The Silent Killer of Relationships

Interestingly, turning away from bids can be more harmful than turning against them. It feeds into social isolation and sends a subtle yet harmful message of indifference, which can make someone feel unseen and undervalued.

Often, missed bids aren’t due to a lack of care but rather distraction or preoccupation. Recognizing and responding to bids is key to avoiding this silent killer of relationships and ensuring that both partners feel valued and connected.