They watch. They hate. And then, they copy.
I always struggled to deal with two things: silence and criticism .
When people around you are silent, something is not working as it should. They are observing you. And each failure could become your public guillotine.
On the other hand, criticism is hard to accept. And even when people do it with the best intentions, their words still hurt feelings. And you never know how to react: when to take it in or leash it out.
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Struggling to find motivation on tough mornings? Discover practical hacks to lift your mood and boost your drive, even when you wake up feeling low. Transform your day!
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