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Insights About Relationships That Could Save You A Lot of Pain

We see life as we are, not as it is

There is no objective reality when it comes to people.

Facts may be facts, but our viewpoint and our vantage point impact our ability to process the facts. We look at life through our own personal filters, our own past experiences, beliefs, and paradigms.

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We see things differently

Two people can look at the exact same situation and see it completely differently.

We see life as we are, not as it is

There is no objective reality when it comes to people.

Facts may be facts, but our viewpoint and our vantage point impact our ability to process the facts. We look at life through our own personal filters, our own past experiences, beliefs, and paradigms.

Giving in relationships

If you do something for someone just because they did it for you or you want something back, you are doing business, not kindness.

If you choose to give 300 percent, then go for it, regardless of what others give you in return.

We don't have to attend every drama we’re invited to

Preserve your energy for your goals, passions, purpose, and doing more good.

If you feel you’re getting sucked into drama (gossip or unnecessary conflict) take a step back and pull away.

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The Painful Days

During the most painful days, or when one is upset, is procrastinating, sick or injured, or having relationship issues, it is easy to forget the good parts, and therefore extremely important to 'balance the scales' by remembering what you are grateful for.

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