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The Agile Family Meeting

Empower the children

With agile practices, enlist the children whenever possible in their own upbringing. When children plan their own time, evaluate their own work, and participate in their own rewards and punishment, they exert greater cognitive control over their lives and become more internally motivated.

Our instinct as parents is to give orders to our children since we think we know best. But telling your kids the same thing over and over may not really help.

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