2. Resist the Deflection Trap - Deepstash

2. Resist the Deflection Trap

It’s tempting to redirect a compliment with phrases like, “Oh, it was nothing,” or “It was really a team effort.” While these responses may feel modest, they can unintentionally diminish the compliment and make the giver feel dismissed. Instead, try owning your contribution.

Example:

Compliment: “Your presentation was so relevant.”

Deflection: “Oh, I just got lucky with the timing of the topic.”

Better Response: “Thank you! I’m glad you found it valuable.”

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“An idea is something that won’t work unless you do.” - Thomas A. Edison

“Thank you for this gift—I’ll treasure it.” When we let compliments sink in, we’re not just acknowledging our own value—we’re also honoring the person who offered them.

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