Why Do We Do This?
The reason hypocrisy thrives isn’t always because people are dishonest—it’s because people are blind. We judge ourselves by our intentions, but we judge others by their actions. If we cut someone off in traffic, we were in a rush. If someone else does it, they’re a reckless jerk. If we break a rule, it was a mistake. If they do it, they should have known better.
The result? A world full of people convinced they’re always on the right side of every debate, every rule, every expectation.
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Life is too short to live in self-deception, blind to our own contradictions while criticizing everyone else. I’ve seen firsthand how easily people justify their own actions while condemning the same behavior in others. This isn’t just frustrating—it’s a trap that keeps us from growth, accountability, and real integrity. My experiences have forced me to slow down, observe, and recognize how precious time and truth really are. If we want a better world, we have to start by being honest with ourselves first.
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