We often get stuck saying "If X happens, then I'll be happy-it's a lie we tell ourselves. Find fulfillment in the process, not the prize.
Must Read: The Most Dangerous Lies We Tell Ourselves
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It deals with truth and is blocked by lies, the ones we tell ourselves.
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