It happens when one rushes to provide advice, which is most likely to be discarded or ignored, even if the person was asked for it.
Even with good intentions, providing advice isn’t necessarily a good idea. We normally do not welcome any advice provided to us, with a natural reflexive repulsion towards being told what is to be done by someone else.
The gist: Quickly learn how to implement these 4 key principles to giving good advice that people will actually follow. Do you get frustrated when someone asks you for advice but doesn't follow it? How do you actually give good advice in a way that gets people to listen and take action?
Giving advice can be a sticky situation. You want people to act on your advice, but you also don't want to come across as a know-it-all. Here are three main factors to consider when you really want someone to heed your words.
Is a way to provide feedback and critique without creating fear or negative feelings, branded by the animation studio Pixar.
Imagine an art director giving feedback to an animator on some sketches for Pixar’s next blockbuster movie and instead of saying something like “but the characters expression is all wrong,” they’ll frame it using more encouraging and creative words like and or what if: “what if we could make their expression more (enthusiastic, brazen, etc).”
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