Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood – Master Communication
✔️ Most people listen to reply, not to understand.
✔️ Develop empathy—listen deeply before giving advice.
✔️ Strong communication = strong influence.
📌 Example: Instead of arguing, say “Tell me more about why you feel this way.” Understanding first leads to better solutions.
💡 Ask Yourself: Am I really listening, or just waiting for my turn to talk?
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