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#5 Seek First to Understand then to be Understood

#5 Seek First to Understand then to be Understood

To understand someone you have to listen to them first - you need to see the problem from their perspective first.

Try Empathic Listening - You listen first, then try to understand and ask questions about the thinking process.

"The time to be understood is when the conversation leads to logic and advice is requested."

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