“The time has come for you to stop being the nice girl at the expense of your own peace, happiness and self-worth. Kindness is a beautiful trait but not when it leads to self-sacrifice, people pleasing and a life lived on the terms of others.”
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The video emphasized that women are often taught to prioritize being nice over being strong. However, God created them with purpose, strength, and dignity—not to be doormats. Being nice isn’t the same as being Godly.
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