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Connor K.
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Trying To "Change" Our Parents
Giving up trying to change your parents may sound like a reasonable option when we realize that:
- The parents have a completely different outlook towards life, something that can never align with our own.
- We are trying to get along with someone who has consciously or unconsciously played a part in damaging our psyche.
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