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If You Think "Change" Is The Right Answer To Your Problems, Think Again - Darius Foroux
We see ‘change’ as the magical answer to everything in life
- “I just need a change of scenery.”
- “A new home will make us happier.”
- “A new relationship will make me feel whole again.”
- “I feel stuck in my job. I should get a new job.”
- “I need to change cities because I’m tired of the one I live in.”
- “I’ll be happy when I change my wardrobe.”
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We see ‘change’ as the magical answer to everything in life
- “I just need a change of scenery.”
- “A new home will make us happier.”
- “A new relationship will make me feel whole again.”
- “I feel stuck in my job. I should get a new job.”
- “I need to change cities because I’m tired of the one I live in.”
- “I’ll be happy when I change my wardrobe.”
Change is great, but not if you don’t get better from it
If you can’t think of a good outcome, stop trying to change. Because change is only good for one reason: Improvement.
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