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Types of Psychological Distancing

Time: We think differently about events that are far in the future, compared to activities in the near future. For events in the distant future, we use abstract terms that lack concrete action.
Space: We use abstract terms to describe events within a physically-near space than events that happen in a space further away.
Social distance: When we describe someone that is different to us, we use abstract qualities (them and us).
Hypothetically: We use abstract words and terms to describe events that may not happen compared to events that are more likely to happen.

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What is Psychological Distancing? Four Helpful Techniques

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Self-Distancing: What It Is and How You Can Use It to Make Better Decisions

It's hard to set your emotions aside when you're faced with a difficult decision. This is problematic, since our emotions often cause us to make the wrong decision in important areas of life, including in our relationships, our finances, and our health.

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Self-distancing

The act of increasing the psychological distance from your own subjective perspective when assessing events that you experience.

Is an external perspective that you can use when th...

Benefits of self-distancing

It can help people cope with difficult events from their past.
It can help people deal with socially distressful situations.
Useful because of our tendency to display high levels of wise reasoning when we give advice to others, but not when we decide how to act for ourselves.
It reduces decisional biases and improves decision-making during times of information overload.

How to create self-distance

Use self-distancing language: refer to yourself in the second or third-person.
Try to view the situation from an alternative viewpoint, that is different from your own.
Try to visualize the perspective of someone you admire, and then ask yourself what would they do in that situation.
Try expressive writing: write about your thoughts and feelings when you’re trying to analyze an event that you’ve experienced.

Laksh Bedi

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The Egocentric Bias: Why It's Hard to See Things from a Different Perspective

The egocentric bias is a cognitive bias that causes people to rely too heavily on their own point of view when they examine events in their life or when they try to see things from other people's perspective.

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The egocentric bias

It is a cognitive bias that causes people to rely too much on their own point of view when they examine or remember events in their life.

This means that people tend to either underest...

Examples of the egocentric bias

When you are giving a public talk, you assume that your nervousness is more apparent to others than is actually the case.
You overestimate the amount of work that you contributed to a group project.
You might believe that your colleagues all share your political beliefs and social values.
You might remember yourself as having been the key player in a past event, despite the fact that you only played a relatively minor role in it.

What causes the egocentric bias

It occurs primarily due to the fact that we tend to naturally examine and remember events primarily through our personal point of view.

Even when we realize that we should adjust our perspective to see things through other people’s eyes, we tend to anchor this new perspective to our own, and we often fail to adjust from our original viewpoint enough to properly assess how other people feel.

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Michael Frost

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The ‘Batman Effect’: How having an alter ego empowers you

Thinking of yourself as a separate entity can reduce anxiety, while also kicking up some major benefits for your confidence and determination.

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The creation of an alter ego

Creating a fictional persona is a strategy that involves taking a step back from our immediate feelings to allow us to think rationally about a situation. It allows us to rein in feelings like anxi...

Changing perspective and emotion regulation

Research shows that small shifts in perspective can help people in controlling their emotions.

In an experiment, when people viewed themselves as "distanced" from a situation, they were less anxious than the group that viewed themselves as in the middle of the situation.

Thinking in the third person

Self-distancing enables people to focus on the bigger picture rather than concentrating on immediate feelings. It improves the sense of emotional regulation, self-control, and general poise.

In a study, participants were asked to practice self-distancing when faced with various kinds of food - for example, fruit instead of candy. When participants asked, "What does David want?" instead of "What do I want?" they were more likely to choose the healthier option.

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