• Speak what you have experienced first-hand.
• Don’t answer questions not meant for you.
• Do not speculate, and clarify instead.

While discussing, debating or arguing, follow these guidelines:

• In an argument, ask open-ended, genuine questions.
• Try to find the answer to what you feel needs to be asked.
• Ask others as an individual and not as a group.
• Listen well.

• During a disagreement, your aim should be to learn something and make yourself and others a better person than before.
• Suggest improvements where things require intervention.
• Admit your own mistakes.
• Ask for direct feedback.