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Too scared to speak up? How to be more confident

How to exude confidence

Building one's confidence and self-esteem does not happen overnight. Like any other skill, it takes time and consistent practice.

Here are some ways to help build confidence:

  1. Be honest with yourself and know what you need to improve on
  2. Do not worry about what other people think of you - focus on yourself and the opportunities you have
  3. Practice courage daily.

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