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Tapping the surprising science of “humble narcissism”
The Trait Of Narcissism
- Narcissism is a personality trait that makes a person represent an excessive, almost exclusive focus on the self, putting the social structure out of balance and leading to toxic behaviour, especially at the workplace.
- Narcissists can appear charismatic and leader-like, but eventually come across as needy, egoistic people craving for attention and validation.
- Showcasing drive, self-confidence and a desire to lead brings productive results, but leads to negative outcomes if it is self-centered.
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Emerging Zone and Enduring Zone
- Narcissists may seem alluring because they seem like a catch, living in the 'emerging zone' of life, which manifests itself in parties, early-stage relationships, and places where making a good first impression is key.
- When narcissists move towards the 'enduring zone', which involves continuing a relationship, and long-term consequences, they start behaving arrogantly and negatively.