We Keep Comparing Our Life With Others
More often than not, we compare ourselves with others, based on what society says, how other people are living, and what the majority thinks of as success.
There is no need to spend the best hours of our best days just comparing our success with other people.
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You need to have a personal definition of success based on your own values, not what is defined by society, neighbours or even your family.
Just staying in your lane will relax you and you can then function instinctively without any comparisons, living your own life to the fullest.
We assume other people have their life taken care of in all aspects, but the truth is that everyone is struggling. Some have job issues, financial, or relationship issues. Just having a (projected) happy face does not mean that everything is hunky-dory with others.
Even billionaires have relationship issues, struggling and juggling with life. Many are self-medicating, and while outsiders may think they have everything, they in fact are as miserable as anyone.
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The majority of busy-being-busy people, who are addicted to distractions, worry, shopping and other stuff are missing out on life and don’t have the clarity to realise that.
They end up creating a field of hurt due to repressing their emotions, as they are removed from the reality of life. Their repressed toxic energy blocks them from their creativity, productivity and new opportunities.
- As we are generally in a state of rest, we need to fight our psychology and neurobiology to improve ourselves constantly and to be disruptive in our game.
- Being iconic is to take the high point of today and make it the starting point of tomorrow.
- Keep innovating, keep optimizing and don’t lose your game.
- Your daily behaviour is a reflection of your deepest beliefs.
- Your social orbit (the people you hang out with, and their mindset about life and health) affects your behaviour and your beliefs.
- People who feel old will make you feel old.
- Hang out with young people, people who think, behave and eat differently.
- Even if you cannot hang out with 20-year-olds with fire in their belly, find people who have a growth mindset and are living life as an original.