6. Mirroring
Mirroring means when someone tends to like what you like. As a result, they might start going to the gym because you like it or they might start taking any sessions because you are taking it. When someone is giving extra efforts to match up to your level so that they can spend more time with you, that is where you can conclude that the person is interested in you romantically.
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