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Chemistry versus compatibility; what's more important?

Judging people

Don't judge someone by the information they put in an online profile. They may look like a perfect fit, but lack the chemistry when you finally meet in person.

Similarly, it can be easy to write someone off because your ideals don't match on paper. Who's to know if you won't have chemistry in real life?

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Chemistry versus compatibility; what's more important?

Chemistry versus compatibility; what's more important?

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/dating/advice/chemistry-versus-compatibility-what-s-more-important-8228021.html

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Chemistry vs. compatibility

  • Compatibility refers to the similarities between lifestyles and values that form the relationship without too much forcing or compromising on anyone’s part.
  • Chemistry is that intangible, unspoken connection that results in feeling excitement and romance. 

In most relationships, both qualities may be present, but one will be of a higher priority than the other.

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Chemistry portrays the
What creates strong chemistry

Chemistry is made up of subtle behaviors and dispositions that are felt by both parties equally.

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High compatibility between people comes from the similarities in their lifestyles and values. 
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