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12 Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson: Summary, Notes, and Lessons - Nat Eliason

Rule 012: Be Present

Rule 012: Be Present

Set aside some time to talk and think about your problems and how it should be managed every day. Don’t think about it otherwise or you risk exhausting yourself on a single issue.

Be present in the now and leave the thinking about problems for the time you reserved for that.

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