Disappointment hurts. And that’s OK.
Don’t try to push it away. And don’t try to hide it under a big smile.
It works better to not be swept away by such tempting impulses.
But to instead accept how I feel. To let it all in and to hurt for a while.
Because if I do then it will go quicker and in the long run be less painful to process what has happened.
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Instead of getting lost in the pain and negative emotions that can come from a disappointment choose to see it more as something you can learn valuable things from.
You might even realize that you need to make a bigger change in your life and start spending less time – or no time at all – with someone who has disappointed you too many times or always makes you feel like a disappointment no matter how hard you try.
Who is never disappointed? Or never feeling low about a setback or a mistake?
The people who never really go outside of their comfort zone.
Everyone who is now successful and you may look up to have had his or her share of disappointments and failures.
Setbacks and sometimes feeling disappointed is a natural part of living your life fully. A sign of you trying to grow and improve your situation.
Keeping this fact in mind helps you to stay strong and your own stumbles and setbacks.
To move on shift your focus to what you still got in your life.
The people, the passions, and the things you sometimes may take for granted like a roof over your head and clean water.
Tapping into gratitude in this way helps to put things into perspective and to not let disappointment overwhelm and derail your whole week.
We often fantasize about the day when things will finally go our way. We have highly positive expectations of the future, but once what we expected did not match our reality we feel hurt and lost.
Expectations frustrate us when we idealize a certain future but our actions and our behavior is not in accordance to what we were expecting for. Oftentimes our behavior falls short of our standards.
Disappointment is a part of life that comes up when hopes or expectations aren’t met. All of us feel disappointment at times in our relationships, in other people, and in ourselves. It’s not an easy feeling to sit with, but there are healthy (and unhealthy) ways to cope with this unavoidable emotion.
It might be tempting to handle disappointment by avoiding it altogether. One way to do this is to not have expectations in the first place. But this isn’t realistically possible. Also, expectations are helpful for us in many ways.
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