An opinion is not the same as feedback
Some feedback is just noise. Feedback is based on observation and reactions to your specific actions.
- Feedback does not try to tell you what you should be doing. It tries to enlarge your perspective on what you are doing.
- Opinions are just someone telling you how they feel about things. It may have nothing to do with you in particular.
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