Why we feel discomfort when receiving praise - Deepstash

Why we feel discomfort when receiving praise

We most often feel uncomfortable if compliments catch us by surprise. When we're surprised, we move through the following sequence:

  • Stage 1: We momentarily freeze. Rising dopamine levels may cause the heart to start racing and palms sweating. This intense emotional experience can feel uncomfortable.
  • Stage 2: We find an explanation for what is happening.
  • Stage 3: We shift the new information so that it fits our existing schema about ourselves. This means we may try to deflect the compliment or shut it down.
  • Stage 4: We share our experience.

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