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4. What You Achieve

4. What You Achieve

Sometimes people want to be known solely for their accomplishments.

  • That person who always brags about her latest business venture may only feel good about herself when she is talking about her accomplishments.
  • Or that person who just can’t stop beating himself up about that time that he failed, might struggle to move on because that one incident completely crushed his self-worth .

Accomplishments can make you feel good, but basing your entire self-worth on your achievements is like building your house on an unsteady foundation.

You’ll need to experience repeated success in order to feel good about yourself – and that’s hard to maintain over the long-haul.

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