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You take control

You take control

  1. An outlook focusing on the ‘results’ is mainly an outlook based on external factors.
  2. When you focus on external factors as the basis for your happiness or motivation, you will only retain part of the control that you could have. You leave the important part to someone else or something else.
  3. But the moment you switch from external factors to internal factors you will begin to take FULL control of your progress.
  4. ‘Whether you give your best effort or not is entirely within your power’ and you will soon realize this.
  5. You will feel empowered.

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It removes all distractions

It removes all distractions

  1. The moment you begin to focus on activities or tasks to do in order to get to where you need to be, you will begin to stop paying attention to all the distractions diverting your attention away from your current goal.
  2. That is how the process works. You will ...

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You start to enjoy the work in this present moment

You start to enjoy the work in this present moment

  1. Having your eye on the results has a way of making you dislike the work you have to do to get it.
  2. That is because you are looking at the lack or absence of the result at this present moment.
  3. But on the other hand, when you begin to pay attention to the process

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Builds confidence in you

Builds confidence in you

  1. The moment you realize that whether you achieve your goal or not is entirely up to you, is the moment upon which you hand over the keys of building your self-confidence from someone else and place them into your own hands.
  2. An approach derived on working and ...

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You will start to appreciate the results a lot more

You will start to appreciate the results a lot more

  1. Results that are earned by means of using shortcuts and that are earned easily are taken for granted.
  2. But once you take the time to really put in the work and pay attention to the process to move yourself a step closer to your goal, you will appreciate the results a lot ...

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