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Find a good social environment

The community we live in helps us bring balance. We don’t all grow our own food, make our own shelter, and provide our own entertainment. We have to keep three things in mind.

  1. We need respect. Some roles in life make us feel valued and worthy but give little comfort.
  2. We need comfort. Some roles yield comfort but are not respected.
  3. We need time. Some roles will give comfort and respect but little time to strive for excellence.

    When we choose our work, friends and relationships, we must consider all three.

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