Victimhood is a matter of socialisation
Not all countries have a tendency for victimhood. For example, Nepali people never show any anger and don't blame each other. They think it is childish to show anger.
In certain societies, people learn that it's OK to be aggressive and blame others and not to take responsibility for hurting others.
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