Victimhood is a matter of socialisation

Three main cognitive biases characterize the tendency for interpersonal victimhood and contribute to a lack of willingness to forgive others for their perceived wrongdoings.

• Interpretation bias: People with a higher tendency of interpersonal victimho...

Proactive people take responsibility for their own lives and don't blame others for their circumstances. They see problems as opportunities for growth and learning. Proactive people are also more likely to take action and achieve their goals.

• You can't know everything. Be humble.
  
• Never blame others for your unhappiness. Take responsibility.
  
• Don't waste time on losers. You might become one of them.
  
• Most of us have a twisted idea about love.
  
• You actually don't have a lot of time.
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