Probably the most common question is asked frequently, by anyone, at anytime, on any day. Casualties in life can be made all the time. The timings never right though.Basically, life's too unfair to give us an ending like the book "it ends with us" but may seem to give some of us the beginning of that book's plot. We are gonna do something about it, right?Wrong. Life's NEVER fair. But so are the people we surround ourselves with, now that's where the problem lies. People.Scary word. I know. But not so scary when you confront them. Remember confrontation is better than confusion.It ends with us

What In The World Is This ?

A disclaimer: not whining about life. Just stating facts. Thought these will make people believe that they aren't the only ones who think this way. We are all the same :) you're not alone. You're normal.

In this “brave and heartbreaking novel that digs its claws into you and doesn’t let go, long after you’ve finished it” (Anna Todd, New York Times bestselling author) from the #1 New York Times bestselling author of All Your Perfects, a workaholic with a too-good-to-be-true romance can’t stop thinking about her first love. Lily hasn’t always had it easy, but that’s never stopped her from working hard for the life she wants. She’s come a long way from the small town where she grew up—she graduated from college, moved to Boston, and started her own business. And when she feels a spark with a gorgeous neurosurgeon named Ryle Kincaid, everything in Lily’s life seems too good to be true. Ryle is assertive, stubborn, maybe even a little arrogant. He’s also sensitive, brilliant, and has a total soft spot for Lily. And the way he looks in scrubs certainly doesn’t hurt. Lily can’t get him out of her head. But Ryle’s complete aversion to relationships is disturbing. Even as Lily finds herself becoming the exception to his “no dating” rule, she can’t help but wonder what made him that way in the first place. As questions about her new relationship overwhelm her, so do thoughts of Atlas Corrigan—her first love and a link to the past she left behind. He was her kindred spirit, her protector. When Atlas suddenly reappears, everything Lily has built with Ryle is threatened. An honest, evocative, and tender novel, It Ends with Us is “a glorious and touching read, a forever keeper. The kind of book that gets handed down” (USA TODAY).

It Ends with Us

so far so good is what I hear from myself whenever I reply to my cousin or friend. Not thinking too much about my reply or atleast trying not to. was my reply too fast? Did I spoke in a dumb manner? Was i being too desperate? Did it made me sound stupid? Was he/she even listening to me? the answers of those questions may rest with them in peace, but i couldn't. it was not really a matter of someone finding you stupid or intimidating or boring, it's a matter of how YOU find those people to be. Sometimes, in your lifetime youight have thought the same things about ANYONE. Now, that's bothersome

Never Let Anyone Downplay You, Relative Or Friends...

It indeed is. everyone have something or the other going their lives. No-one and i mean, no-one is capable of having the perfect life everyone desires. in books and fairytales it may seem so easy, but it isn't as you may already know. So, now, there's no going back. Now, You have to be your own male/female protagonist. Give yourself some love. Be arrogant but not in a selfish way. Be arrogant about how much you look after yourself and others around you even if they seem unfair towards you. Now that's something to be proud of. Be proud of yourself for surviving all these years. You did it!

Trying Is Hard...

These ideas are the most common route to one's relating towards the others. You're not alone, stand high :)

Motivational quotes

How is everything a mess?

"The objective of being human is to grow."we grow and we learn, sometimes the learning part may stop for us but we gather our thoughts and remember the times we really used to think, for real. Think real things, that are productive and were helpful towards us....So, it's okay for people to stop growing for a moment (or as much time as one need) to gather their thoughts, take a deep breathe and remind yourself of all those things that makes you wanna go on. Even if those things are as little as one's habit of procrastinating but getting their job done or having negative thoughts but smiling.

"It Can Feel As Though We've Hit Rock Bottom"

life won't be the same each and every passing year, to learn and to accept is what some may find hard or difficult. The fact that you are imperfect is not a sign that you have failed; it is a sign that you are human, and more importantly, it is a sign that you still have more potential within you.Having potential or not is not anyone's business to judge, but one's business to find out about it. Accept it and move on with it. Make it a part of yourself. Embrace it with grace and convenience. Savouring every moment into the imperfect gestures makes it more human-like. More normal.

"Nature Is Imperfect And Because Of That Growth Is Possible."

These ideas make ME want to live again, to the fullest. Okay, maybe not the "fullest". But atleast try and live without worrying about my past and future and focus on present. In calm and positive manner. (Hopefully) :)

THIS IS A BOOK ABOUT SELF-SABOTAGE. Why we do it, when we do it, and how to stop doing it-for good. Coexisting but conflicting needs create self-sabotaging behaviors. This is why we resist efforts to change, often until they feel completely futile. But by extracting crucial insight from our most damaging habits, building emotional intelligence by better understanding our brains and bodies, releasing past experiences at a cellular level, and learning to act as our highest potential future selves, we can step out of our own way and into our potential. For centuries, the mountain has been used as a metaphor for the big challenges we face, especially ones that seem impossible to overcome. To scale our mountains, we actually have to do the deep internal work of excavating trauma, building resilience, and adjusting how we show up for the climb. In the end, it is not the mountain we master, but ourselves.

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It Ends with Us

How is everything a mess?

The Mountain Is You

Bite-sized knowledgeto upgradeyour career

Eyeab Muq @123ideas4free

It Ends with Us

How is everything a mess?

The Mountain Is You

Bite-sized knowledge
to upgrade
your career

Eyeab Muq
@123ideas4free