Pixe Blog's Key Ideas from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
by John Gray

Without this translation, when a woman says “Everyone ignores me” a man may hear “I am so unhappy. I just can’t get the attention I need. Everything is completely hopeless. Even you don’t notice me, and you are the person who is supposed to love me. You should be ashamed. You are so unloving. I would never ignore you this way.”

” translated into Martian means “I have been doing so much today. I really need a rest before I can do anything more. I am so lucky to have your support. Would you give me a hug and reassure me that I am doing a good job and that I deserve a rest?” Without this translation, when a woman says “I am so tired, I can’t do anything” a man may hear “I do everything and you do nothing. You should do more. I can’t do it all. I feel so hopeless. I want a ‘real man’ to live with. Picking you was a big mistake.”

“Today I am feeling as though you don’t love me. I am afraid I have pushed you away. I know you really do love me, you do so much for me. Today I'm just feeling a little insecure. Would u reassure me of ur love and tell me those three magic words, I love u. When you do that it feels so good.” Without this translation, when a woman says “U don’t love me anymore” a man may hear “I have given u the best years of my life, and u have given me nothing. u used me. U are selfish and cold. U do what u want to do, for u and only u. u do not care about anybody. I was a fool for loving u. Now I've nothing