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The Venusian/Martian Phrase Dictionar
“We never go out”
translated into Martian means “I feel like going out and doing something together. We always have such a fun time, and I love being with you. What do you think? Would you take me out to dinner? It has been a few days since we went out.” Without this translation, when a woman says “We never go out” a man may hear “u are not doing your job. What a disappointment you have turned out to be. We never do anything together anymore because you are lazy, unromantic, and just boring.”
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“Everyone ignores me”
translated into Martian means “Today, I am feeling ignored and unacknowledged. I feel as though nobody sees me. Of course I’m sure some people see me, but they don’t seem to care about me. I suppose I am also disappointed that you have been so busy lately. I really do appreciate how hard you are working and sometimes I start to feel like I am not important to you. I am afraid your work is more important than me. Would you giveme a hug and tell me how special I am to you?” (continuation next)
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“Everyone ignores me”
Without this translation, when a woman says “Everyone ignores me” a man may hear “I am so unhappy. I just can’t get the attention I need. Everything is completely hopeless. Even you don’t notice me, and you are the person who is supposed to love me. You should be ashamed. You are so unloving. I would never ignore you this way.”
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” translated into Martian means “I have been doing so much today. I really need a rest before I can do anything more. I am so lucky to have your support. Would you give me a hug and reassure me that I am doing a good job and that I deserve a rest?” Without this translation, when a woman says “I am so tired, I can’t do anything” a man may hear “I do everything and you do nothing. You should do more. I can’t do it all. I feel so hopeless. I want a ‘real man’ to live with. Picking you was a big mistake.”
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“You don’t love me anymore” translated into Martian means
“Today I am feeling as though you don’t love me. I am afraid I have pushed you away. I know you really do love me, you do so much for me. Today I'm just feeling a little insecure. Would u reassure me of ur love and tell me those three magic words, I love u. When you do that it feels so good.” Without this translation, when a woman says “U don’t love me anymore” a man may hear “I have given u the best years of my life, and u have given me nothing. u used me. U are selfish and cold. U do what u want to do, for u and only u. u do not care about anybody. I was a fool for loving u. Now I've nothing
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Many of our relationships have misunderstandings so here are some of them we hear a lot. I would like to suggest this book if you want more details it's a worth read book..
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