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Death Is the Roommate of Life - More To That - Medium
Long before you knew of your own identity, you were some of this: And some of this: These two weird things came together at some point, and you became this: And after months of living in your mother's womb, you were birthed into existence and became a resident of this world.

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We have this moment only to work on what's important

We have this moment only to work on what's important

Death illuminates the fact that this very moment is all we really have in this life.

We have only this moment to work on what gives us meaning and to tell the people we love most that we love them.

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