Secret of dealing with people

One-half of all mental diseases can be attributed to such physical causes as brain lesion , alcohol, toxin and injury.

But other half of people who go insane have nothing gone wrong with brain cells.

In post-mortem examination ,under highest-powerd microscope brain tissue are found healthy as yours and mine.

Psychiatrist said , people who go insane find in insanity a feeling of importance that they were unable to achieve in

" world of reality "....

Charles schwab , 1st president of newly formed United state steel company 1921 ,

In an interview schwab said , men working at companies knows about steel manufacturing better than me, i was paid that much large salary because of ,

" My ability to deal with people "...

" I'm hearty in my approbation and lavish in my praise " ~ schwab

It was desire of feeling important that led an uneducated , poverty-sticken grocery clerk to study some law book found bottom of barrel. you probably heard of this grocery clerk - Abraham Lincoln

A Study was made few years back on Runaway wives , what do u think was discovered to be main reason wives ranaway?

" It was lack of appreciation ."

And as per Runaway husband,

" They often take thier spouse so much of granted that they never let them know they appreciate them. "

Gnawing human hunger , and rare individual who honestly satisfies this heart hunger (wholehearted appreciation) will hold people of his or her hand.

At an self improvement programme , they had been asked to list out any 6 things that they could change themselves to become better ...

A wife asked her husband the same . Her husband reported in class that frankly he would have listed 6 things but she could have listed 1000 things about me ,So i thought of giving her 6 roses and a note saying , " I can't think of six things i would like to change about you " .

When husband arrives home she was almost in tears, hugged him so tightly and shared her love towards him..

Give honest and sincere appreciation... Different between appreciation and flattery

One is sincere and other is insincere, one is selfish and other is unselfish...