Dorian Lecoq's Key Ideas from The Art Of Seduction
by Robert Greene

Emotions are a powerful tool in seduction. Seek to create emotional connections by making others feel positive emotions, such as joy and enthusiasm.

Self-confidence and charisma are valuable assets in the art of seduction. Master your aura. Show yourself as self-assured yet humble, and you will naturally attract attention.

Be attentive to your interlocutor's needs and motivations. Try to understand each person you interact with see it as training to master the basics of human relationships. By understanding what drives them, you can tailor your seduction strategy to each desired person.

Play on the desire for conquest by making yourself unattainable in the eyes of others or creating obstacles that give the illusion of an impossible love story. Remember that people desire what they cannot easily obtain.

Surprise those around you with unpredictable behavior and original, unexpected actions. Surprises create memorable moments and enhance your charm. Your unpredictable character makes people eager to understand you.

Develop a captivating and interesting lifestyle that reflects your personality. An active person is always more attractive. Take care of your image and appearance while staying true to yourself.

Help others fulfill their needs. Be empathetic and use their emotional weaknesses to subtly seduce them. Always use this approach ethically, aligning it with the person's desires. For example, if someone has a fear of public speaking, act as a savior by attempting to spare them from delivering that famous speech to the guests (with their consent, of course). By acting with integrity, you will gain their trust and admiration.

By finding challenges to conquer or setting goals to achieve together, you create complicity and a strong emotional bond.

Stay in control of your emotions while being receptive to others' emotions and needs. This will allow you to remain authentic while avoiding manipulation from someone who may have detected your attraction to them.