How to Make a How-To-Fail List To Benefit From Stupid Mistakes

If we shift our mindset from fixed to growth, we could achieve two results:

• Avoid repeating the same stupid mistake.
• Learn from the flaws that make us weak.

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Awareness is the first step towards improvement.

Yes, I know – it’s obvious. But, sometimes, the most obvious thing is the hardest to cope with.

So, to avoid deep falls, you better be aware that anything could go wrong. Sometimes, even terribly so. And you have to be ready. Find a way to predict what could go sideways. Or, at least, prepare for the worst.

Down the road, you will know if it was worth the investment. If nothing happens, good for you. But if it does, it won’t destroy your morale that much. So, this is the reason why you should write a how-to-fail list.

Okay, good. Everybody should write at least one how-to-fail list. I will assume I convinced you. But what is that?

That’s pretty simple.

A How-to-Fail list is an exact description of the events that could make you fail a project that means a lot to you.

But not only that. It must contain the precise steps that would bring you to failure and the mistakes that would worsen the situation.

In the beginning, as you have never experienced any failure, your list will be raw and incomplete. But don’t worry! You have time to improve it the first time you face a setback. And, as you get to know your flaws better, you could enrich each step with a cause, probability, and even remedy.

Your how-to-fail list will become a warning for your flaws and the solution to escape them. So, let’s see how to build one to avoid and learn from your mistakes.

A How-to-Fail list is a sequence of steps that describe the many ways your project could fail. And you can build it following four simple steps.

First of all, you must imagine which are the progressive steps that would bring you from the simplest mistake to the biggest disaster.

If you already know your flaws, it will be easy to find a starting point. But if you don’t, start with the basics: lack of motivation, procrastination, poor goal setting, etc.

Each step could split into multiple consequences. However, it would be better to reduce complexity and focus on one mistake at a time.

The first steps of your lists will always have a high probability because they are your most common flaws. But you should also be aware that worse things could happen.

I won’t bother to make a How-to-Fail list for events that have a 1% probability of happening. But if you want to, I won’t stop you.

Then, find the exact cause that would make a stupid flaw become something more serious.

These will be your attention points in the future. And they will help you avoid those mistakes and failures.

And then, you must find a remedy for each step that could help you climb back to the initial state when everything worked fine.

Search for a remedy will be almost impossible if you have never made a mistake. So I suggest you read other people’s stories to find possible solutions. And then, if it will ever happen, you may find your answers.

Here’s a short list of benefits in case you are not convinced yet.

• When you create the list, you force yourself to think about all the possible consequences of your actions. So, building awareness is one of the fundamental benefits.
• Also, if you are aware of mistakes, you can prevent them from happening. So, you would build a system that helps you stay on track.
• But you can also learn from mistakes. This system pushes you to improve because it makes you think about a remedy for each problem in advance. So, you will already do a lot of problem-solving.

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