San Jay's Key Ideas from How to Talk to Anyone
by Leil Lowndes

Glued eyes

• This technique suggests you focus on the target instead of the speaker. "Why is this person looking at me instead of the speaker?"  
• Your target senses you are very interested in his or her reactions.
• When you use Glued Eyes, it sends out signals of interest blended with complete confidence in yourself. If she doesn't like you, however, your Glued Eyes is very unpleasant.
• It puts you in a position of judging. you must be careful. Don't overdo it or you could come across as arrogant and shameless.

Smile

• Don't flash an immediate smile when you greet someone.
• if anyone who walked into your line of sight would be the beneficiary.
• Instead, look at the other person's face blankly for a second.
• let a decent and normal and ponsive smile flood over your face and overflow into your eyes.

Take Each Move accordingly.

• Make it a habit to get on a dual-track while talking.
• Express yourself, but keep a sharp eye on how your listener is reacting to what you're saying.
• Then plan your talk and actions accordingly.

Big-Baby

• Give the warm smile, the total-body turn, and turned a precious face to them and hugged them.
• Show your excitement for the person coming.
• People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care about them.
• The secret to maintaining people like you is showing how much you like them.

Old Friend technique

• When meeting someone, imagine he or she is an old friend.
• If you find yourself with a group of people who are unknown to you, just imagine them to be a group of your old friends.
• When you're using Hello Old Friend, The atmosphere is charged with good feelings.
• The air sparkles with happier, high-energy people
• They are standing closer, laughing more naturally, and reaching out to one another.

Mess bundle of nerves to be limited.

Whenever your conversation counts, let your nose itch, your ear tingle, or your foot prickle.

Don't fidget, twitch, wiggle or scratch.

Hand motions near your face and all fidgeting can give your listener have the feeling you're lying.

Fidget meaning(to keep moving your body, hands, or feet because you are nervous)

Began to Eye contact with everyone.

• Pretend your eyes are glued to your conversation partner's eyes.
• Don't break eye contact even after he or she has finished speaking.
• When you must look away, do it ever so slowly. keep good and normal eye contact.

Smile with showing teeth.

A smile frames your lips and softens your eyes. This is the look winners have constantly.

Your Posture Is Your Biggest Success Barometer.

When you gave teethed smile, every muscle is stretched into a perfect posture position.

Practice to gave a teethed smile. Don't be shy.

See YouTube videos, observe them. Stand in front of the mirror and practice until you get your perfect smile.

Acronym for part one :

A GST BOMBS

   Assume your scene

   Glued eyes

   Smile

   Take each moves accordingly

   Big-baby

   Old friend technique

   Mess bundle of nerves to be limited.

   Began to eye contact with everyone.

   Smile with showing teeth.