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Understand before speaking

One of Steven Covey’s seven habits in his best-selling book, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People”, was entitled “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.”

Most people would really like to just have someone to listen to their thoughts. Speaking and informing can only be successful after that.

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