The True Confidence
True confidence is earned. It’s earned by succeeding. Not by wishing for success. True confidence emerges when you consistently push through things that suck. The longer you sit with the boredom, pain, and discomfort — and actually create something meaningful, the more confident and successful you will be.
All of these things “suck,” at least initially, and in-the moment. However, if it doesn’t suck, it’s not worth doing. And you absolutely can learn to endure the discomfort of the moment to build a life worth having.
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