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Don't be stupid.
"Be compassionate,be kind,be helpful, just don't be stupid"
- Anonymous
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You are TOO Nice.
- Do you walk an extra mile for people ALL the time?
- Do you blame yourself in difficult situations ?
- Do you end up feeling frustrated in uncomfortable situations ?
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Am I being nice or needy ?
Being too nice comes out a few factors :
- Fear of abandonment : Fear that people would leave us
- People pleasing : We are not comfortable with people not liking us
- Neediness : Our need of emotional support and clinginess
- Fear of being alone : We are afraid of endi...
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Why is it a problem to be too nice ?
1. Low self esteem : People pleasing means we depend on others a lot for validation and our choices are driven by their response. This weakens our sense of self.
2. Constant Dissatisfaction : Since our focus is not what we really want or like, we always end up unhappy with...
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Being kind to ourselves just like an old supportive friend would be in times of disappointment, failure or embarrassment.
Don't be too negative
... or ironic and don't complain all the time.
All of these behaviors are people repellent. We naturally gravitate towards people who are kind, loving, cheerful, and funny, rather than to those who complain all the time.
Reasons For Kindness Attracting
When people observe kindness or generosity, they may be subtly pressured to look good and be more giving themselves. But this is just one of the minor reasons, as many act in an anonymous manner.
Seeing the other person being kind, people get to unconsciously copy their behaviour as the pr...
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