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Do you have enemies?

be humble and stop speaking ill of people.

Those who do not make enemies are more powerful than those who have the strength to fight them all and win.

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Three liberating insights

Three liberating insights

  1. people are not as interested in you as you had always believed.
  2. not everyone has to like you
  3. if we are brutally honest with ourselves, most things we do for others are in fact for ourselves

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When you are feeling confused

A very modern dilemma:

There are countless television channels, but nothing interesting to watch.

Too many choices make people unhappy.

Are you feeling confused or conflicted? Allow yourself a good night’s sleep. When you wake up the next day, the problem will seem lig...

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A cruel irony

A cruel irony

The reward for someone who works hard is more work.

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Enlightened and unenlightened person

For unenlightened people, not every day is a good day, because they feel happy only when things happen the way they want them to.

For enlightened people, every single day is a good day, because they feel free knowing that nothing can take away their wisdom

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When you lower yourself, the world elevates you.

When you elevate yourself, the world lowers you.

HAEMIN SUNIM

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How to change a bad situation

How to change a bad situation

If you’ve been unable to change a bad situation, even after many attempts, you should change how you look at the situation.

Nothing is intrinsically good or bad. Good or bad is always relative.

Compare your situation with someone’s that is worse. Now yours does not seem so bad after...

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Be aware of what you feel

Be aware of what you feel

When you are stressed out, be aware of your stress.

When you are irritated, be aware of your irritation.

When you are angry, be aware of your anger.

As soon as you become aware of these feelings you are no longer lost in them.

Your awareness allows you to witness them from...

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