“Successful people don’t wish for success; they decide to pursue it. And to pursue it effectively, they need a system. Success always has a price, but the reality is that the price is negotiable. If you pick the right system, the price will be a lot nearer what you are willing to pay.”

The only reasonable goal in life is maximizing your total lifetime experience of something called happiness. That might sound selfish, but it’s not.
If you need, imagine better things, a grander future for you to be happy. The happiness formula:
<ul>
<li>Eat right</li>
<li>Exercise</li>
<li>Get enough sleep</li>
<li>Imagine an incredible future (even if you don’t believe it)</li>
<li>Work toward a flexible schedule</li>
<li>Do things you can steadily improve at</li>
<li>Help others (if you’ve already helped yourself)</li>
<li>Reduce daily decisions to routine</li>
</ul>

Happiness

To maximize your energy, you can either be a simplifier or an optimizer:<ul><li>A simplifier chooses the easiest path to a goal</li><li>The optimizer looks for the very best solution despite the increased complexity.</li></ul>

Optimizing  Vs Simplifying

The most important form of selfishness involves spending time on your fitness, eating right, pursuing your career, and still spending quality time with your family and friends. .Selfishness is good especially when you are starting your journey to success. You need to be selfish with your time and money. Being selfish is only bad when you become a burden on society

The Selfishness Illusion

The Success Formula: every skill that you acquire doubles your odds of success. The more concepts you learn, the easier it is to acquire new ones. 
Skills which every adult should develop at least a working knowledge:
<ul>
<li>Public speaking</li>
<li>Psychology</li>
<li>Business writing</li>
<li>Accounting</li>
<li>Design</li>
<li>Overcoming shyness</li>
<li>Second language</li>
<li>Golf</li>
<li>Proper grammar</li>
<li>Persuasion</li>
<li>Technology</li>
<li>Proper voice technique.</li>
</ul>

Success Isn’t Magic

Humans want many things. The only way to achieve all of them is by organizing your priorities. To organize your priorities, focus on one main metric: energy.How to maximize your energy:<ul><li>Eat right</li><li>Exercise</li><li>Avoid unnecessary stress</li><li>Get enough sleep</li></ul>When you get your energy metric right, you will be excited to wake up and the quality of your work will be better. You will also be able to complete your work faster.

The Energy Metric

Your attitude affects everything you do in your quest for success and happiness. A positive attitude is an important tool. It’s important to get it right.The way to manage your attitude is to understand that the brain can be programmed for success. <ul><li>Increase your ratio of happy thoughts compared to negative thoughts. If your life doesn’t have much to offer in the form of happy thoughts, then try daydreaming.</li><li>Smile often. Smiling will make you feel better even if your smile is fake. Also, act confidently. If you act confidently, you will feel confident.</li></ul>

Managing Your Attitude

<ul><li>Lack of fear. A lack of fear of embarrassment is what allows one to be proactive. It’s</li><li>what makes a person take on challenges that others write off as too risky</li><li>Education (the right kind). Generally speaking, the people who have the right kind of education have almost no risk of unemployment</li><li>Exercise. Good health is a baseline requirement for success. It's about the extra energy and vitality that good health brings.</li></ul>

Patterns for Success

"I’ve come to believe that success at anything has a spillover effect on other things. You can take advantage of that effect by becoming good at things that require nothing but practice. Once you become good at a few unimportant things, such as hobbies or sports, the habit of success stays with you on more important quests. When you’ve tasted success, you want more."

"Making comics is a process by which you strip out the unnecessary noise from a situation until all that is left is the absurd-yet-true core. A cartoonist has to accomplish that feat with as few as four short sentences."

<ul>
<li>If you achieve your goal, you celebrate and feel terrific, but only until you realize you just lost the thing that gave you purpose and direction. Goal-oriented people exist in a state of continuous presuccess failure at best, and permanent failure at worst if things never work out. </li>
<li>Systems people succeed every time they apply their systems, in the sense that they did what they intended to do.</li>
</ul>

Choose Systems Over Goals

<ul>
<li>It is hard to tell whether passionate people are passionate because they are successful or they are successful because they are passionate.</li>
<li>Passion sounds more accessible. If you’re dumb, there’s not much you can do about it, but passion is something we think anyone can generate in the right circumstances.</li>
<li>Sometimes passion is simply a byproduct of knowing you will be good at something.</li>
</ul>

Passion Is Bullshit

Quitting might conflict with the advice you’ve heard all your life— that sticking with something, no matter the obstacles, is important to success. It's true, overcoming obstacles is normally an unavoidable part of the process. But you also need to know when to quit. Persistence is useful, but there’s no point in being an idiot about it.

Knowing When To Quit

<ul><li>Think of your priorities in terms of concentric circles, like an archery target. In the center is your highest priority: you. </li><li>The next ring—and your second-biggest priority—is economics. That includes your job, your investments, and even your house. If you don’t get your personal financial engine working right, you place a burden on everyone from your family to the country. </li><li>Once you are both healthy and financially sound, it’s time for the third ring: family, friends, and lovers. Good health and sufficient money are necessary for a base level of happiness, but you need to be right with your family, friends, and romantic partners to truly enjoy life. </li><li>The next rings are your local community, your country, and the world, in that order. Don’t bother trying to fix the world until you get the inner circles of your priorities under control.</li></ul>

Priorities

"Most failures involve bad luck, ignorance, and sometimes ordinary stupidity."

"Failure always brings something valuable with it. I don’t let it leave until I extract that value."

<ul><li>Personal experience</li><li>Experience of people you know </li><li>Experts </li><li>Scientific studies </li><li>Common sense </li><li>Pattern recognition.</li></ul>When seeking truth, your best bet is to look for confirmation on at least two of these dimensions.

The Six Filters for Truth

Blasting clichéd career advice, the contrarian pundit and creator of Dilbert recounts the humorous ups and downs of his career, revealing the outsized role of luck in our lives and how best to play the system. Scott Adams has likely failed at more things than anyone you’ve ever met or anyone you’ve even heard of. So how did he go from hapless office worker and serial failure to the creator of Dilbert, one of the world’s most famous syndicated comic strips, in just a few years? In How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, Adams shares the game plan he’s followed since he was a teen: invite failure in, embrace it, then pick its pocket. No career guide can offer advice that works for everyone. As Adams explains, your best bet is to study the ways of others who made it big and try to glean some tricks and strategies that make sense for you. Adams pulls back the covers on his own unusual life and shares how he turned one failure after another—including his corporate career, his inventions, his investments, and his two restaurants—into something good and lasting. There’s a lot to learn from his personal story, and a lot of entertainment along the way. Adams discovered some unlikely truths that helped to propel him forward. For instance: • Goals are for losers. Systems are for winners. • “Passion” is bull. What you need is personal energy. • A combination of mediocre skills can make you surprisingly valuable. • You can manage your odds in a way that makes you look lucky to others. Adams hopes you can laugh at his failures while discovering some unique and helpful ideas on your own path to personal victory. As he writes: “This is a story of one person’s unlikely success within the context of scores of embarrassing failures. Was my eventual success primarily a result of talent, luck, hard work, or an accidental just-right balance of each? All I know for sure is that I pursued a conscious strategy of managing my opportunities in a way that would make it easier for luck to find me.”

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Productivity

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Problem Solving

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Books

Blasting clichéd career advice, the contrarian pundit and creator of Dilbert recounts the humorous ups and downs of his career, revealing the outsized role of luck in our lives and how best to play the system. Scott Adams has likely failed at more things than anyone you’ve ever met or anyone you’ve even heard of. So how did he go from hapless office worker and serial failure to the creator of Dilbert, one of the world’s most famous syndicated comic strips, in just a few years? In How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, Adams shares the game plan he’s followed since he was a teen: invite failure in, embrace it, then pick its pocket. No career guide can offer advice that works for everyone. As Adams explains, your best bet is to study the ways of others who made it big and try to glean some tricks and strategies that make sense for you. Adams pulls back the covers on his own unusual life and shares how he turned one failure after another—including his corporate career, his inventions, his investments, and his two restaurants—into something good and lasting. There’s a lot to learn from his personal story, and a lot of entertainment along the way. Adams discovered some unlikely truths that helped to propel him forward. For instance: • Goals are for losers. Systems are for winners. • “Passion” is bull. What you need is personal energy. • A combination of mediocre skills can make you surprisingly valuable. • You can manage your odds in a way that makes you look lucky to others. Adams hopes you can laugh at his failures while discovering some unique and helpful ideas on your own path to personal victory. As he writes: “This is a story of one person’s unlikely success within the context of scores of embarrassing failures. Was my eventual success primarily a result of talent, luck, hard work, or an accidental just-right balance of each? All I know for sure is that I pursued a conscious strategy of managing my opportunities in a way that would make it easier for luck to find me.”

Adams was born in Windham, New York in 1957 and received his Bachelor's degree in Economics from Hartwick College in 1979.He also studied economics and management for his 1986 MBA from the Haas School of Business at the University of California, Berkeley.In recent years, Adams has been hurt with a series of debilitating health problems. Since late 2004, he has suffered from a reemergence of his focal dystonia which has affected his drawing. He can fool his brain by drawing using a graphics tablet. On December 12, 2005, Adams announced on his blog that he also suffers from spasmodic dysphonia.

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