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Learn From Pain

Learn From Pain

Learn to sustain the pain you've chosen.

When you choose a new value, you are choosing to introduce a new firm of pain into your life.

Relish it, Savor it.

Welcome it with open arms.

Then act despite it.

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Pain And Gain

Many people,

When they feel some form of pain or anger or sadness, drop everything and attend to numbing out whatever they're feeling.

Their goal is to get back to,

"Feeling good" again as quickly as possible,

Even if that means substances or deluding themselves or returning to their shi*ty values.

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How to really mess up your problem: with real life methods:

There are majorly two ways to really really mess up your problem. Any one of these is enough to make your life miserable.

  1. Denial of your problem:
  • The first step to actually start entangling your problem, is to deny that you have one. This thing, you can do when you just realise that you have a problem.

2. The victim mentality:

  • The second step, after you get into one problem, is blaming the outside circumstances for it. Remember, no outsider can be responsible for your inside chaos.

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The desire for more positive experience is itself a negative experience. And, paradoxically, the acceptance of one’s negative experience is itself a positive experience.

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