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7 Life-Changing Truths Most People Are Too Scared (or Too Stubborn) to Admit

Fearing judgment from others

We fear the judgments of others, even though their judgments about us are rarely valid or significant.

Tying your self-worth to everyone else’s opinions gives you a flawed sense of reality because people judge us based on a pool of influences in their own lives that have absolutely nothing to do with us.

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  • Present: Talk a little bit about what your current role is, the scope of it, and possibly a recent achievement.
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