Asking for advice
"I'm working on A. My priorities are B and C, but I'm not sure it's the best option. If you have a moment, I'd appreciate your thoughts . If you can't, no worries. Thanks."
- Be precise about what you're trying to do.
- Be clear about your priorities.
- State that you're asking for advice, nor for the recipient to decide for you.
- Give the recipient an easy out. "If you can't, no worries. Thanks"
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