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Don't Allow Your Limitations to Define You!

Choosing To Succeed

There will always be some obstacle, excuse, or distraction between you and your goals; but, choosing to be positive and insisting on rising above it can be the tool that will help you go beyond them. And the very thing that complicates the pursuit of your goals may also be a strength.

Make a conscious decision to abandon any anxiety or fear of failure and accept that success cannot be achieved without failure. Failure being not achieving your intended purpose.

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